Name: Donnell Hicks
Title: A Man with Sensitivity
A man’s role in a relationship is defined by the man in the mirror. In most cases, he is labeled a “Mr. Do Right,” and is typically looked at as a knight in shining armor, the perfect gentleman for a damsel to adore. When a man commits himself in a long term relationship with his girlfriend, he must do all that he can to shower her with his affection from his heart and most importantly a man will become his lady’s rock during troubled situations.
The role of a man can be defined in so many ways. For instance, a woman will want a man who is strong, resilient, loveable, kind, plus determined to step up to the plate and defend his territory by keeping outside influences from ruining the relationship he has with his girlfriend. There are some men who don’t show a sensitive nature, who won’t shed a tear for anything in the world. Often, there are a few men who will display their sensitivity, their warmth and feelings. I believe if a man shows his true emotions it doesn’t make him a “faggot,” a “punk,” or a “sissy.” And it doesn’t hurt for a man to be in touch with his feelings every now and again.
There are phrases people use when they see a grown man show his emotions like, “it takes a strong man to cry.” Clearly it does take a strong man to show his true compassion in his relationship towards his girlfriend’s feelings if she needs him to be compassionate. Women who love men who don’t show their sensitive nature generally are attracted to men who are thuggish and not loveable. They definitely are not compassionate. Above all a woman dislikes it when a man doesn’t care about her emotions despite the fact she pleads with him to become compassionate.
Another way a man’s role is defined in a relationship is by his ability to love his girlfriend for life. He must cherish her like the beautiful queen she is and be her protector when the odds are stacked against their relationship. A man will romance his girlfriend to the fullest by displaying his affection and by setting up a candlelight dinner, sending her flowers on the job unexpectedly or making absolutely certain she’s happy. Some men won’t even go the extra length to show their romantic side. Be as it may, the relationship fails when his girlfriend finds euphoric bliss in the arms of another man.
Honestly, there a few good men out there in the world who will give all of themselves and then some to the woman they’re with in a relationship. Right now today in the twenty-first century, a woman would like a man with sensitivity, a man who will love her with all of his heart and be the strong solid rock foundation in the relationship. He’ll essentially become the “breadwinner” in the relationship. If a man’s heart is in the relationship, so will his soul and his love; and he will make a commitment and vow to stand tall to do all he can to protect the relationship.