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Is Love Worth Fighting For???

12/4/2012

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Date: 11/30/2012
Name: Donnell Hicks
Title: Is Love Worth Fighting For???




Is love worth fighting for? Why does love hurt so badly? A relationship or marriage between man and woman is solely based on two main ingredients: “love” and “trust” followed by communication.

For any person who has gotten out of a bad relationship or a chaotic marriage, one can say love can come with happiness or sadness. It usually depends on the different circumstances that might arise such as being cheated on by your mate with another person or arguing almost every day over the silliest things. What to do when a woman finds her boyfriend or husband cheating on her with another woman? The woman will either leave or stay to make the marriage and relationship work. Love no scratch that, true love can dominant the woman’s heart and vice versa.

You want to believe deep in your heart your soul mate will change for the better and not for the worse. As a result, is love worth fighting for when you’ve been constantly hurt so many times in the past? One half wants to give up the fight and everything else, and the other half keeps you fighting on until you can’t fight anymore. At the end of the day, fighting to have someone’s heart can be exhausting.

The heart is evidently fragile when it is broken into tiny pieces. Similarly, a man can endure his sensitivity being stomped on or taken for granted. A man will show his true emotions, his true affection towards the woman he adores very much simply to have it get knocked down by the woman who keeps having him drag out his feelings and then hit him with a two letter word “no.” The man will give all he has to give and then extra to show he truly loves his wife or girlfriend. At the same time, there are some women who appreciate a man’s authentic emotions; on the other hand, there are some women who believe men shouldn’t show their emotions.

Sometimes it is not so easy to stay in love for the benefit of not being alone. To endure so much heartbreak realizing the relationship has lost its original touch. In other words, there is less communications, less trust, less lovemaking, constant fighting over the littlest things, and most of all, less excitement. For some men and women, it is easy to simply walk away when the tension grows so high. Moreover, what a person can do when his/her soul mate has his/her heart wrapped up in emotions? You want to be around for your mate to work it out, but putting your life on hold can spell disaster. Will it be the same as the first several tryouts? Only time will tell.

I don’t know; love can be a mystery. It depends on how hard each individual wants it. Love can be a headache and a nuisance all at the same time, because one person in the relationship or marriage puts up 100% of the effort opposed to the other person simply putting up 60% or 50% of the effort; and that is a recipe for disaster. Honestly, love isn’t worth the headache of being with a person who doesn’t truly care about your feelings. If a person really cares, is love really worth fighting for at the end of all the mayhem? Maybe or maybe not.


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